Expanding your social circles
Published on 9 December 15
Welcome Week was nearly three months ago. For some students that time has flown by, but for others it might be dragging if you've not met the lifelong friends you had hoped for.
Firstly, don't worry. Making friends is a skill that can be learned and there are many in the same position. Here are some tips on making new friends and expanding your social circle.
- Step out of your comfort zone, even if it's just for five minutes, and try something new.
Decide on a sport/hobby/interest/subject you love. See if the Students' Union has a society. They’ll offer a Refreshers Fair, (usually held in January) so you can find out more about what the society does, how often they meet etc.
If a society doesn't interest you, how about volunteering? Get involved in the community and meet like-minded people. You'll also feel great about yourself too. - Don't give up!
Those five minutes of stepping outside of your comfort zone can reap huge rewards, especially when you're looking to build new friendships or relationships. - Introduce yourself to everyone in the room.
Even if it's just to say hello and ask them how they are. It breaks down barriers but you'll already have done the hard work! - Speak less, ask more
You may not have the gift-of-the-gab so ask more questions. Most people like to talk about themselves so asking questions can be a real conversation opener. Ask them how they are or what they study or why they love Manchester. Who knows where this conversation will take you? - Make eye contact and show positive body language
Keep your head up, shoulders back and chest out. Your positive body language can project not only confidence but also kindness.